permissions and kinks;

[whiplike]

Short version:

• Kinsey 4 (female-leaning bisexual) but with a fairly evenly split history of partners.
• Kinky more often than not and a switch who dommes by default and subs out of respect and she's quite indulgent either way.
• As shipping goes: yes to Daenerys, yes to Asha-Yara, yes to Margaery, yes to honestly any female who's not her close family, mm let's talk about boys but if you're suggesting a boy who's a super-jerk expect it to not end well for them.

Regarding kinks: 

• Yes: vaginal sex, oral sex (giving and receiving), bondage/light BDSM, sensory deprivation, teasing, honor bondage, tribbing, dress-up, toys, biting, spanking, orgasm denial, public sex
• Maybe: stricter BDSM, anal sex, role reversal, punishment/discipline, whipping
• No: dub/non-con, bathroom anything, vore, sounding, humiliation, bloodplay, ageplay, caning

Ask if something isn't listed.

Regarding partners and relationships:

• Nym is a 4 on the Kinsey scale. She generally prefers women, but she's not disinterested in men.
• She's a massive flirt, just like her dad, and tends polyamorous, just like her dad, but she's respectful of her partners and if they're not comfortable with that she can hold off.
• She doesn't really require commitment as such, she's in it mostly for fun. She's more likely to settle with a woman, but that hasn't happened yet, so it's all pretty theoretical.
• Nym is (surprisingly) a switch. With men, she's all domme, and she'll play that role with women too, but if she likes a woman and trusts her well enough she's comfortable with submitting, too. (And she really doesn't use her whip in the bedroom that often.)

Regarding shipping:

• Instant yes (in canon): Daenerys, Asha-Yara, Margaery.
• Negotiable (in canon): most women that aren't her close family (i.e. technically she's related to Dany but it's pretty distant and Westerosi-acceptable, but none of her sisters/etc.) are probably fair game. I can't think of a guy in canon that I'd pair her off with, but if you're willing to get mercilessly teased I guess you're free to shoot your shot.
• "Types" (particularly for cross-canon): Nym is drawn to interesting people. Aesthetic appeal is important, sure, but she also likes people with strong convictions, special abilities (supernatural or just practiced), and/or strange backstories. (This is the place where I point out that she makes a very good local vigilante hero if crossing into superhero canons.)

Ask if you're not sure. 

To clarify, Nym exists mostly in a vague timeline of the writer's own invention, where post-s6 the alliance of a thousand queens actually didn't get fridged and ruined.